Hey there, it's Caryl. Do you worry about things? Such
a worrier I used to be!
I’d get so upset with my husband because he refused to join my fretting. “Caryl.” He always said so matter-of-factly. “Why should I? You worry enough for both of us.” But the bills! They’re going to cut the water off. And the baby's so sick!
I’d get so upset with my husband because he refused to join my fretting. “Caryl.” He always said so matter-of-factly. “Why should I? You worry enough for both of us.” But the bills! They’re going to cut the water off. And the baby's so sick!
Then in
my forties, a ministry sent me a birthday greeting, homemade on heavy card stock printed
on one side with ‘Worry Hinders Every Promise of God.’ I stuck it in my mirror, mostly because it
was a pretty shade of green, my favorite color. Every day I saw it, usually
more than once. It happened suddenly on a glance, as clear and up close as high-def TV, the Holy
Spirit wrote that Truth across my heart.
Repenting,
I received forgiveness, then since—much to my beloved Ron’s penchant—I quit
worrying. Refused to! Completely. I realized it is a choice, and I chose to trust God. From that position, there is no
need to worry! Besides, it’s the total opposite of faith! Hebrews 11:6 tells us
“Without faith, it is impossible to please Him.” To worry insinuates God isn’t
big enough or doesn’t care. I know that is absolutely not true.
Writers use such inspirations. In
my new contemporary Christian Red River Romance, THE PREACHER’S FAITH, that debuted earlier this month, my
heroine Faith has a wise Aunt Iris. One conversation goes like this:
“Everyone seems to like him fine so far. I
figure if he were to marry a local girl…Well, it would be another plus to his
favor.”
“That’s one thing I’m worried about. And that the
job could be a big part of his motivation. I mean, do you think –”
“I think there’s no need for you to worry about
anything. Worrying only hinders every promise of God. It never accomplishes
anything, ‘cept maybe making you sick.”
“I know.”
“But it’s true. If you worry, then you flat out
aren’t trusting God. You’re telling Him that He hasn’t got your back, isn’t
looking out for you.”
How
many times have you heard someone say, ‘I’m worried sick’? Through the years, my
faith and desire to please Him has grown strong. I want to bring glory to the
One Who loves me so much that He offered His Son so I could be with Him forever.
Once He opened my blinded eyes, I clearly saw the waste and even harm of worry.
God ALWAYS comes through, provides my needs, and watches over me. I’ve
proven Him o’er and o’er, and encourage you to as well. I could offer so many
testimonies as to how He came through when I refused to worry, you’d surely get
tired of reading them, but I’ll give one example for every comment! How’s that?
Blessings, y’all! I'll draw a random winner from those who comment and send a signed copy of The Preacher's Faith!
Blessings, y’all! I'll draw a random winner from those who comment and send a signed copy of The Preacher's Faith!
Worry can indeed be a hindrance.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the post. I can be a worrier if I'm not careful.
ReplyDeleteCaryl, lovely post. You are so right. Worrying is doubting the Lord and He loves us enough to carry all of our burdens. His promises are true and we need to give Him all of our cares and TRUST. Thanks for the reminder.
ReplyDeleteSo right, sister! :) God has helped me gain ground in this area, and how wonderful to feel the pressure lifted from worrying! Lol. Thanks for the post; a good reminder.
ReplyDeleteGreat advice, Caryl! God can certainly handle what comes our way. Glad to see that you have joined up with Stitches.
ReplyDeleteHi Caryl, my husband once told me not to worry, & he would do it for the both of us..
ReplyDeleteSo I was glad to just pray it out! The Lord has taught us not to worry but he still has a tendency to over analyse everything. I think I read that 90% of things worried about never happen. :) Enjoyed hearing from you today!
I struggle with being a worrier too, Caryl, but the Lord's been working on me. I love what Martin Luther told his wife, he said "Pray...and let God worry."
ReplyDeleteThanks for the post!
Learning not to worry when it seems there's so much to worry about is difficult. Good post!
ReplyDeleteNot worrying is something that I try to remind myself of so often. Learning to trust in the Lord, completely, is difficult at times, but I'm working on it.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the reminder to have total faith.
I try so hard to stop worring about things that I can't fix but God helps me by sending me posts like yours telling me not to worry that he is in control. It is so hard.
ReplyDeleteOh, yeah, I've got the worries big time!
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