1. Tell us about yourself and your writing journey.
I'm a mother of little kids and I write, so I don't do anything particularly exciting anymore, besides try to fix plot problems in my head while I clean up shattered glasses of chocolate milk on the floor while someone announces that her sibling stinks because the potty training isn't going so well, all the while convincing myself that ignoring the dishes piled up beside the sink is simply an ingenious homeschooling project--what better way to observe, experiment with, and talk about ants!?
Yep, I did that today....I know you envy me. :)
As to my writing journey, it started because diapers and patty-cake wasn't exercising my brain. If I'd known how hard writing was to get right and make everyone happy, I might have bought some more logic puzzle magazines! But as hubby said, if I didn't write, I'd have found something else to do late at night, so I'm good--and I can't seem to stop any more......
2. Are you crafty?
I used to
crochet a baby blanket for every newborn I knew since I was 12. But I'm
an impatient crafter. When I started my first attempt at a baby jacket
that had to be sized properly (unlike a blanket) it was big enough for a
four year old no matter what I did or needle I used! So I visited one
of those ritzy yarn stores with weekly get-togethers and was taught how
to properly do gauge......it would take me 5 times longer to do things
the right way! So I started winging patterns rather than following any
so that my fast stitching made the size I wanted without using gauge.
Real crafters are probably appalled at me now.
I used to make-up silly crochet projects in college, like Mary Jane slippers and little animals, to avoid studying....
And
then I graduated to frugal art when I started staying home with my
kids, no wasting money on buying yarn! So I'd use what I had already to
meet my needs...and some people were just amazed that I made cloth
diapers out of free thrift store t-shirts, flannel robes, and moth-eaten
wool sweaters or that I used a blog instead of scrapbooking to keep a
record of my children's lives, or that I saved egg cartons for the kids
to use as blocks (which take up lots less storage space) etc.
So that's when I started my most popular blog ever (which shames all my other blogs with the amount of page views it still gets everyday though I've quit really putting anything on it about 2 years ago). You can peruse the archives at Making Do with the Not so New if you're so inclined to see what I make out of discards basically.
So that's when I started my most popular blog ever (which shames all my other blogs with the amount of page views it still gets everyday though I've quit really putting anything on it about 2 years ago). You can peruse the archives at Making Do with the Not so New if you're so inclined to see what I make out of discards basically.
3. Tell us about something fun/funny you've come across in your writing research.
I'm
actually going to share a book (that you can get for free on kindle)
that I just purely enjoyed reading although it was totally a research
book, it was like reading a novel.
The writer had an absolutely wonderful personality on the
page, her observations of her neighbors and their escapades were
entertaining, and she described the landscape sooo beautifully I
actually enjoyed reading it (and I'm not a description reading
kinda-girl). As good as any novel, and it's true (from her perspective
anyway!)
4. Tell us about a time someone told you
something or you read something that left an impression on you that
still affects you to this day.
Once
when my youth minister was praying on a mission trip I took as an 8th
grader, he asked God to be "so kind as to help Melissa realize how to
put her socks on right-side out." He was just being funny, but every
time I put on socks to this day, I can't let that little seam be on the
outside no matter how much of a hurry I'm in or how hardly noticeable it
is or that no one will ever see!
But on a serious note, that same youth minister, when I
asked him years later to tell me my faults so I could correct them,
refused to tell me any, saying I was too hard on myself as it was.
That's all he said, but I realized then that most people could likely
list off what they saw were my many fault--including him, but I don't
need to fix stuff about myself to make other people happy, I need to
concentrate on fixing what God was nudging me to fix next, and then move
onto the next thing He showed me. It's Him I should be striving to
please, not everyone around me.
So lesson? Be careful what you say to teens, they do listen no matter how much they look like they aren't . . . . and it can affect their sock wearing choices forever.
So lesson? Be careful what you say to teens, they do listen no matter how much they look like they aren't . . . . and it can affect their sock wearing choices forever.
5. Tell us about your most recent book:
Love by the Letter is the romance story I made up for the neighbors in A Bride for Keeps.
Dex Stanton’s first attempt at acquiring a
mail-order bride fails when the lady writes back ridiculing his
atrocious spelling. Rachel Oliver, the smart little brunette who sat in
front of him in school, is the last woman he wants to ask for help. How
can he handle her knowing what a dunce he really is?
Rachel Oliver has had enough. She’s
lingered in town for two years mooning over Dex, and now she’s done,
done, done. If the fool wants to write to a mail-order bride company so
be it. She’ll help him find a fancy eastern wife and then go to college
as her parents wish. Except once she starts working with Dex, she wants
to stop. How can she help him capture another woman’s heart as
thoroughly as his laidback charm has captured her own?
Although Everett Cline can hardly keep up
with the demands of his homestead, he won’t humiliate himself by
looking for a helpmate ever again–not after being jilted by three
mail-order brides. When a well-meaning neighbor goes behind his back to
bring yet another mail-order bride to town, he has good reason to doubt
it will work, especially after getting a glimpse at the woman in
question. She’s the prettiest woman he’s ever seen, and it’s just not
possible she’s there to marry a simple homesteader like him.
Everett is skeptical a cultured woman like Julia could be happy in a life on the plains, while Julia, deeply wounded by a past relationship, is skittish at the idea of marriage at all. When, despite their hesitations, they agree to a marriage in name only, neither one is prepared for the feelings that soon arise to complicate their arrangement. Can two people accustomed to keeping their distance let the barricades around their hearts down long enough to fall in love?
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You're welcome, Melissa. I know I can't wait to read my copy of each of these. Congratulations on this achievement.
Pull up a chair and stay for a bit to ask Melissa some questions.
I love this interview! Melissa, you are a woman after my own heart! As the mother of three young children myself, I can totally relate! Reading late at night is my getaway.
ReplyDeleteI had the privilege of reading an ARC of A BRIDE FOR KEEPS and it is written with such tenderness and depth. It is a wonderful novel and I highly recommend it! It is certainly a book for keeps!!!
Britney, thanks for the nice endorsement there. I wish I had time to read more late into the night. Though now, the newborn totally sucks that time away!
DeleteThanks for stopping by, Britney.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your little ones. They grow up so quickly. :)
Thank you for this wonderful interview. I cannot wait to read A BRIDE FOR KEEPS. I have heard great things! I am amazed at Melissa's talent plus the fact that she has a little more going on in her life than just writing which would be overwhelming in itself.
ReplyDeleteYep, I second "overwhelming"....what was I thinking????? :)
DeleteThe sock thing is funny because my Mom, who passed this on to my daughter, always wore her socks inside out because the seam hurt her toes she said. There, now you have a good reason to wear your socks inside out, lol.
ReplyDeleteI can put them on inside out on my newborns since it seems to bother them, but that voice taunts me all day if I try to ignore it. Now if the seam bothered me I might have the courage to ignore the voice in my head.....but since it doesn't,,,,
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