More Than Rubies

 A wife of noble character who can find. She is worth far more than rubies. Proverbs 31:10

Proverbs says “a wife of noble character is worth far more than rubies”, a statement that intimidates most women. It makes me think of my mom. She made her family her entire world. She loved my dad with a love that’s still single-hearted twenty-two years after his death, and we knew she loved us. That sacrificial love that dominated her life reminds me of the Proverbs 31 woman. My lullaby was often the sound of her sewing machine as she made our clothes.

The woman described in Proverbs 31 intimidates us because we believe she was some kind of super-woman, impossible to emulate. However, I think we’re seeing a glimpse of her entire lifetime, not one single day. She provides an example of the attitude all women should have toward the importance of serving as a wife and mother. This outlook is worth more than rubies to the Lord.

This interpretation is rare in our world today. However, we must undertake our task with eager hands, seeing it as important above all but our relationship to God. Her arms were strong and her lamp burned late into the night as she cared, not only for her own family, but those who suffered need.

This woman’s husband was well respected and she behaved in manner that honored him. The influence she made through service to others gave her the reputation of possessing strength and dignity. Rather than eating the bread of idleness, she prepared for her family’s needs far ahead of time. She undertook her God-given task as a wife and mother with a seriousness we are to emulate.

Her husband called her blessed, not only for her abilities as a homemaker, but for a spiritual life and commitment that served as an example. To make the Lord our highest priority, spend time in His word, seek His wisdom, pray for our family, and serve them with joy causes us to become the woman God created us to be.

There is winsomeness about a woman who puts her husband and family first. Nothing is wrong with having a career. Today’s economy often requires that women work outside the home. The key lies in what we see as our ultimate purpose, and that key is found in scripture.

If we first bless our families, the Lord will bless us in every area of life. Then we will be seen as more valuable than rubies, for our commitment, example, and the blessing we bring to others.

© Copyright by Norma Gail Thurston Holtman, 2011 and January 19, 2018

Norma Gail’s debut contemporary Christian romance, Land of My Dreams, won the 2016 Bookvana Religious Fiction Award. A women’s Bible study leader for over 21 years, her devotionals and poetry have appeared at ChristianDevotions.us, the Stitches Thru Time blog, and in “The Secret Place.” She is a member of American Christian Fiction Writers, Romance Writers of America, Historical Writers of America, and the Women’s Fiction Writers Association. Norma is a former RN who lives in the mountains of New Mexico with her husband of 41 years. They have two adult children. If you’re interested in connecting with her, you’re to follow her blog, or join her on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram, Goodreads, or Amazon. 

Back in the Day . . .

Do you ever wish you lived in the days of the butcher, the baker, and the candlestick maker? How about the Cobbler, the Haberdasher, and the Milliner?

Speaking of Milliners . . . I just read this great book about a hatmaker. Carla Stewart’s The Hatmaker’s Heart. Stewart is known for her “nostalgic novels.” They generally have to do with a specific moment in time, and when I read her stories, I want to go back. Ok, keeping it real . . .. I’ve never actually lived in the roaring twenties, but when I read Hatmaker, I felt like I was there. And I wished I could wear one of her hats . . . and go back there.

It’s a story about postwar (between the wars) women and explores the paradigm shift whereby women sought after careers and college education in greater numbers than ever before. It examines the plight of women who lost husbands in the war, and tried to find a way to support families on their own. And how they came up against the old guard who promoted their traditions of women at home. 

The Hatmaker’s Heart follows a girl who loves designing and making hats back in the day when nearly every outfit required a different, matching hat. 1920s high fashion in NYC and then London dominates the scenes and provides a colorful backdrop for the drama which unfolds as Nell discovers who she is and learns to stand up for herself in a male-dominated workforce at a time of great change.

Nowadays, hats are for fun, sun, or warmth. What was the last hat you purchased for yourself? Do you like hats? Would you wear one every day if that was in style? Leave us a comment for a chance to win this week’s drawing.

The Hatmaker’s Heart is a quick and fun read. I hope you’ll give it a try.

Review by Jennifer Fromke

Sisterhood of Spies

Virginia Hall receiving her Distinguished Service Cross

I love the research phase of writing – I unearth some of the most interesting information! I'm currently researching my next story – tentatively entitled Under Cover. It's the third in my series about war correspondent Ruth Brown who is stationed in London during World War II. In this story she will be recruited by the Office of Strategic Services (OSS), the precursor to the CIA, to take part in one of their operations. I stumbled on the idea after reading Elizabeth McIntosh's book Sisterhood of Spies. Ms. McIntosh served with the OSS in Hawaii, Burma and China during WWII.

Part of what I enjoy learning about the past is studying about women in the workforce and how they dealt with the limitations that were forced on them. You may have heard the expression that women were considered the “fairer sex.” Does that sound chivalrous to you? There might have been that aspect to it, but the overriding philosophy was that women were not capable of doing what men were doing – physically, emotionally or mentally. Time after time, the women of the OSS proved this theory wrong - working in cartography and cryptography, organizing resistance groups, initiating rumors, forging documents, and infiltrating enemy lines.

One of the most famous of all OSS women spies is Virginia Hall. Born in Baltimore, Maryland (my home town!) she joined the British Special Operations Executive in 1941 then transferred to OSS in 1944. According to Ms. McIntosh's book, Hall entered Vichy France twice to organize, train and supply French resistance fronts while simultaneously operating an “underground railroad” to assist the escape of downed Allied pilots to neutral or friendly countries. She also maintained radio communications between London OSS headquarters and resistance forces in the Haute-Loire district.

The Gestapo listed Hall on their “most wanted” list as follows: “The woman who limps is one of the most dangerous Allied agents in France. We must find and destroy her.” Why did she limp? Due to an accident, her left leg had been amputated below the knee. She wore a wooden prosthetic that she nicknamed Cuthbert. Which of us would have such pluck and bravery?