Showing posts with label change. Show all posts
Showing posts with label change. Show all posts

Monday, June 8, 2015

Peace in Change



God intended it for good…” Genesis 50:20

I felt as if the rug had been pulled out from under me, landing me on my back, staring at the ceiling, and wondering what happened. The news of a major job change for my husband, less than ten years from retirement took us by surprise.

It’s easy to make plans, taking the current state of affairs for granted, and assuming nothing will change. We have the head knowledge that God will care for us in any situation, but when that knowledge is tested, it can create doubt and fear. Scripture says that man makes his plans, but the outcome is in God’s hands. However, knowing that and putting our faith in action are two different things.

We live close to all of our family, and built the home we planned to retire in. We were settled in our church, Bible study, and routines. Life was supposed to slowly wind down surrounded by the familiar. Suddenly, we faced a future that threatened to take us away from everything familiar and loved. Though not out of malice, our change, like Joseph’s was not of our choosing. Nothing prepared us for what was coming.

Joseph was transported to a strange culture, surrounded by strange people, far from everything he knew, by someone else’s choice. It wasn’t a dream. My husband’s boss made a decision that changed all of our plans.

David’s trials grew him into a man of great spiritual depth and exemplary character. He trusted God to provide all he needed, gave his best, and prospered. We knew God could do that for us too, but we still cried out “Why?”

What trials and changes face you today? God is big enough to handle all the questions and doubts. He hears the cries of our hearts, and understands our fear of the unknown. He promises He will never leave or forsake us, and tells us to be at peace. “Sometimes the greatest blessings come when we leave the familiar behind and take a step of faith.” (1)

Determine to wake each morning with an attitude of trust in God and a believing heart that refuses to fear. It’s not easy, but stepping out in faith yields rewards we never dreamed possible.

© Copyright February 9, 2013 by Norma Gail Thurston Holtman, revised April 28, 2015


Quote from Land of My Dreams by Norma Gail

Norma Gail’s debut contemporary Christian romance, Land of My Dreams, set in Scotland and New Mexico released in April 2014. She has led weekly women’s Bible studies for 19 years. Her devotionals, poetry have appeared at ChristianDevotions.us, the Stitches Thru Time blog, and in “The Secret Place.” She is a member of American Christian Fiction Writers, FaithWriters, Romance Writers of America, and the New Mexico Christian Novelists. She is a former RN who lives in the mountains of New Mexico with her husband of 38 years. They have two adult children.




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 Book Links:
Lighthouse Publishing of the Carolinas: http://store.lpcbooks.com/product/land-of-my-dreams/

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Change Your Pattern in 2015

What does this hot pad have to do with New Year’s Resolutions? 


New Year’s Eve is the day of reflection and celebration, although most of us would rather just celebrate. But before donning the party hat, I decided to look back on 2014 and find a pattern in my life that needs changing.

Change doesn’t have to be big.

I frequently change crochet patterns—actually I just make them up as I go. In fact, I always change or design my own crochet patterns to fit my mood or purpose. Changing a life pattern (habit) isn’t as easy, but it’s doable when we realize everything doesn’t have to change.

Notice that the petal pattern of all these hot pads is basically the same. This pattern can be changed by using different threads, hooks, or adding or subtracting rounds to the size or change the color.  Yet they’re all done the same way. Not much change is needed after all.

Tweak the elephant before you eat it.

Applying this logic to a habit I should change, like eating too many sweets, I might start with a small change to the pattern by not bringing sweets home from the grocery store.

Pictured above is the hot pad made for everyday use, made in a color that complements my kitchen colors.

A small change can make a dramatic difference. For Christmas, I made this one to resemble a poinsettia, and made it large enough for my candy pot. (Colors and size changed, though the pattern didn’t require much tweaking.)



Here’s one designed for a fall theme. I could also change it to look like a pumpkin, sunflower, or harvest moon. 


Fill in the void.

As I was playing with this hot pad pattern, I saw how my writing pattern needed to be changed. I was doing a lot of things right, but something was missing. Just as changing a crochet pattern requires replacing it with something else, so does personal change. I can’t just lose weight, I have to replace the high-calorie food with healthy choices. All resolutions require more than getting rid of the bad, but also replacing the bad with good.

Share your resolution for accountability.

Well, I'm not giving up sweets, ha ha, but I do have a resolution. I intend to change my writing pattern in 2015. Thanks to all the inspiration I’ve received from my fellow writers like the lovely ladies at stitchesthrutime, I’ll start publishing, starting with a crochet book. My daughter and I will publish ten of the patterns I’ve designed over the years. She will write an anecdote to introduce each pattern, and I’ll provide the instructions.  During 2015, I’ll also publish three historical romance novellas to introduce my long western series. By announcing it here, I am accountable.

That sounds ambitious I know, but all it takes is changing my pattern, tightening a stitch here and there, throwing out time stealers, applying my skills.

Do you plan to make any changes in life patterns for 2015? Whether you do or not, Happy New Year and may every day of 2015 be blessed.