What is more fun
than Christmas shopping? Ummm. Maybe not for some. Not for me. I have no desire
to fight the crowds on Black Friday. I’ve never enjoyed any type of
shopping—except for toys.
Playing Santa.
We have a tendency
to over-indulge the kids with toys at Christmas, don’t we? To see the joy on
our children’s faces on Christmas morning is one of the greatest experiences of
parenthood, or grandparenthood.
What better way to
relive the magic of Christmas? For one brief moment, we can become children
again. We can get down on the floor and experience the fun, manipulate the
mechanical toys, sniff the perfume of a vinyl doll.
The fantasy of
Santa Claus, St. Nickolas, or Father Christmas has been around for several
centuries, but the plethora of toys under the tree is a modern phenomenon. Before the Victorian
era, gift-giving wasn’t popular for anyone, and certainly not for children. Except
for the rich. Up until WWII, it was unusual for children to receive more than
an apple, an orange, and a stick of candy in their stockings. Toys were
home-made, a carved yo-yo, a hand-stitched doll. Again, except for the rich.
Maybe over
exuberant gift-giving makes us feel rich, but I think there’s something more to
it than that. It is more blessed to give than to receive. Christmas gives us
the opportunity to indulge in those blessings more than at any other time of
year.
Exchanging gifts
among adults isn’t nearly as much fun as playing Santa for children. At the back
of our minds, we’re always worried our gifts won’t be right for grown-ups, and
there’s that desire to reciprocate in kind.
We don’t expect
children to reciprocate for Santa toys, and therein lies the real joy of gift-giving. A gift extended from the heart—without expecting anything in return.
What was a favorite
toy you received under the tree?
Cap pistols! Maybe that's why I write suspense. ;-)
ReplyDeleteI had a cowgirl outfit, complete with holster and cap pistols. Maybe that's why I write westerns.
DeleteOne year my grandparents bought me a beautiful toy horse that made me gasp when I caught a glimpse of it.My grandma always made Christmas so special for us. This year, my grandma is in a home especially for Alzheimers patients. I hope I can find a way to make Christmas special for her.
ReplyDeleteOh Amber, what a sweet memory. As a grandmother, I can tell you your grandparents enjoyed the moment as much as you did.
DeleteOne year I received one of those metal dollhouses. But my parents couldn't afford furniture for it, so I had to make my own. It wasn't perfect, but it was all mine and I loved it.
ReplyDeleteA wonderful gift, Debbie, and you got to develop your creativity. I always loved those toys that required imagination.
DeleteThe Christmas that I was in 3rd grade I received a tin dollhouse that was a schoolhouse. It had a teacher and several student figurines and also a teacher's desk, student desks and a blackboard. This was a complete surprise and I have always treasured it!
ReplyDeleteConnie
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The Christmas that I was in 3rd grade I received a tin dollhouse that was a schoolhouse. It had a teacher and several student figurines and also a teacher's desk, student desks and a blackboard. This was a complete surprise and I have always treasured it!
ReplyDeleteConnie
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Hi Connie, oh, yes, those surprises are the best. I got a blue petal car when I was 5. Totally unexpected and one of my earliest memories.
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